Throwaway.
Last week, my boyfriend (of 6 months) got in a really bad fight with his family (it wasn’t his fault) while I was over and threw his bowl against the wall, which caused it to break. He has a history of breaking stuff whenever he gets angry when he’s alone. He treats me incredibly well and we have a respectful relationship (we have had serious disagreements but it never resorted to yelling or hitting) but I’m worried about this. I talked to him about it afterwards, and he said that he knows what I mean, and I’m right objectively, but when he’s in that mindset, he doesn’t know how else to deal with his anger and he only breaks his stuff so “it’s okay.” Is this normal? What should I do?
tl;dr: my boyfriend breaks stuff when he’s angry (not at me). I don’t know if this is normal or not
Submitted September 23, 2020 at 07:28PM by ThrowRA-aran https://ift.tt/33U07nF
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