My husband (M40) and I (F39) have been married for 15 years. We have been close friends with another couple for 6 years. The past 6 months my husband and the woman of the couple have started spending one on one time together often only telling me after the fact, even though these activities are planned in advance. It started with group events they would attend individually that they had invited each other to. Now they are running errands together, having lunch just the two of them and even spending alone time together at my house while I am at work. She has become his plus one when I can not attend due to my job. Some of these events do not require a companion and he has stated they can be awkward because people assume she is his wife, yet he continues to take her places. A group text including the two of them, her husband and myself has taken the back burner to them individually texting. I found out his co-workers have a nickname for her as he works retail and she drops by to see him. Am I wrong to think they are headed down a slippery slope? They have both told me I am.
Tl;dr: My husband and close friend have started an exclusive friendship. Am I wrong to think something is going on when they are spending hours alone together.
Submitted July 25, 2019 at 10:20AM by nynmlv https://ift.tt/32RuWbf
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