How may I (21M) politely suggest that my wife (21F) should be a bit more experimental sexually? Without mansplaining?

My issue is, she wants me to help her climax, but I'm ONLY allowed to do it through penatrative sex. She says if she cums from hand stuff it doesn't count and I'm not a real man.

How can I politely suggest that perhaps clitoral orgasms (the only kind she has ever had) might be the way to go? She gets very angry when I suggest positions other than missionary or her on top. She gets upset if I want to do anything but straight-in straight-out very fast.

I feel she's an adult and if I'm not allowed to educate her, I can't really force anything. I'm looking for the kindest and least inflamitory way to make these suggestions.

TL;DR My wife gets angry I can't make her cum from penetration, how can I suggest other options?

Submitted March 06, 2022 at 11:22PM by Future-Swordfish-659 https://ift.tt/ZfEJBWa