Me and my partner have been having issues for the past 4-5 years. We were with each other out of habit rather than love. We slept in separate rooms, had sex maybe once every three months. I have been thinking about breaking up for a a while but I was dependent financially on him. We weren't married and the house, savings, the cars it was all his.
My daughter had her 16th birthday last November and for whatever reason my husband decided to get her expensive lingerie. I was disgusted with him. He didn't see anything wrong with that. I just couldn't take it anymore so I moved out with my daughter. After the break up my daughter resented me. She loved her "step dad". They were really close, closer than she was with me.
Two weeks ago my daughter announced she was moving in with my ex because she hates me and doesn't want to live "like a poor person". I tried reasoning with her, warned her, even begged her to stay but she didn't. I've been trying to get her back but she doesn't even want to talk to me. I call and message her daily but she wouldn't talk to me. I'm devastated. I lost my only child. I'm scared for her. I don't know how to get her back. How to get her to at least listen to me. I called the police on my ex in hopes they'd bring my daughter back but they checked up on him and told me they can't legally force my daughter to move back in with me and that there were no signs that my ex was in any way abusive to her. After that my daughter messaged me saying to "stay the fuck away from her life". I feel so lost and powerless.
TLDR: My daughter moved in with my ex and I have no way of getting her back or even getting her to listen to me
Submitted March 14, 2022 at 02:47AM by likeawee https://ift.tt/IfskG2D
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