TL;DR! : literally the title. Is it fair for me to be upset about my partner going to the bar with another guy…
She says they are just friends and it’s the first time they are hanging out, I asked to go but she said ‘No, that would be weird.’ I admittedly got upset about this because it’s some new guy that I don’t even know. She waited to tell me he asked for her number four days ago. She insists they are just friends but wouldn’t the two of them going out to a bar be considered a date? I really don’t know how to cope or feel about this. I’m sitting here feeling like a kid with tears in my eyes over something that may or not be serious. I’m the type of guy that wants to befriend girls and guys alike so I understand but for some reason this feels different. I have a gut feeling that I’m about to be blindsided or heartbroken. We live together so this is a somewhat serious matter. Again to clarify I did make a big fuss about it and she was saying I needed to calm down and not worry but I can’t help myself. She at first said they were going to a restaurant but that closed 2 hours ago (9pm) and it’s 11:30, so I know if they went anywhere it was a bar. I’m just worried sick and I need some tips to help cope with the stress or advice from someone. I feel like I’m stuck in a hole that I dug myself into.
Submitted March 26, 2022 at 11:44PM by Quantscore https://ift.tt/X7Br4Mk
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