Husband (28) and I (26f) are trying to repair our relationship but there’s one instance I can’t get past
We separated about 6 months ago after 5 years and have been trying to reconcile the last few weeks. There have just been a few instances I don’t fully trust him about abs don’t know what to do. This is the biggest one that’s really holding me back.
Right before we separated, we got in a huge fight. He brought up the idea of him sleeping with other people (I was having some medical problems that made our sex life not as lively as it once was). I thought about it for a few days and then said it made me upset and I wasn’t ok with it. We ended up getting into a huge fight that resulted in him packing his stuff and leaving the house.
Later I found out the first person he called was one of his female coworkers. He called and asked her to talk and to see if he could crash at her place for the night. I had met a number of his coworkers but had never met her before and didn’t know they were that close. It really made me uncomfortable but he says it was because it was the only one of his coworkers who had a reasonable living situation to ask something like that (one of his closest coworkers was couch surfing at the time and the others were never home).
I just can’t get over the feeling that they had something between them even though he swears they didn’t. How can I trust him and move forward from this feeling?
Tldr; want to know the truth about a specific person but don’t know if he’s telling the truth . Don’t know where to go from here
Submitted March 12, 2022 at 04:59PM by FerretZealousideal45 https://ift.tt/htQLc0P
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