I (M 29) have been in a relationship for over three years now with my girlfriend (F 24). I am struggling with where i see the relationship going. I have thought both about us buying a place together and then sometimes i get this pit in my stomach that i dont want the relationship anymore.
The truth is sometimes i just dont feel the attraction anymore. She is a nice girl and i lover her. I just no longer feel those strong feelings anymore. I now feel constant guilt for not being totally in love as she is all the time. I really cant stand the thought of hurting her.
Has anyone been in this situation and broke up? How did you do it aand how did it turn out for both?
And if you didn't and continued to stay together and work through things, did you develop the strong unwavering attraction i think i should be feeling?
I feeel like i would have wasted 3 years of her life if we broke up. I honestly feel recently like i am drowning with the thought of having to make a decision soon. I feel like time is running away and i have lost control of everything.
Tldr three year relationship, confused. Don't want to hurt her. How do i mpve away from the confusion.
Submitted March 06, 2022 at 03:32PM by robotobo21 https://ift.tt/m9TlkGI
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