My (20M) Girlfriend (21F) wants me to talk to her at late at night and skip my routine work for the next day.

Hi So ive been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 months now. And its all good and fine but yesterday we were on a video call and it was quarter past 11pm and I told her that I was gonna retire for the day as I had to go to the gym in the morning, but she asked me to stay, which I did cause I do love her after all.

Then, at 11:45 I told her that it would be a problem if I don’t go to bed, as it would affect me and possibly ruin my next day, to which she replies that I should skip the gym and talk to her.

So the thing is this happened when we had already talked for 2 hours. And I feel 2 hours is more than sufficient.

But rather than understanding, she started guilt tripping me, that I never stay and its not bad to skip the gym once or twice. But the thing is that I am a man of routine and I like my lifestyle that way and also I don’t have a bad routine which I should change for her. I feel she was just being utterly ridiculous and it annoyed me a lot that she expects me to wake up till 2 or 3am, which I ain’t gonna do. I mean I love her but I have better things to do as well.

How should I tell her that she is kind of invading in my routine and sort of in my personal space?

TL;DR Annoyed by the fact that my girlfriend wants me to stay up late talking to her and expects me to skip my routine work by guilt tripping me.

Submitted January 01, 2022 at 08:12PM by kinkysuke https://ift.tt/3t5zGtJ