My fiancé (26m) and me (25f) have been together for 7 years, engaged for three. He’s had a female friend for about 6 years and I do not approve of her at all.
This woman comes over whenever she wants and when she does she asks my fiancé for foot rubs and he gives it to her. I find this highly disrespectful and believe that foot rubs are intimate and only your partner should be receiving them. He argues with this.
It’s not like he casually rubs her feet either. She puts her feet very close to his privates and he lotions it up and gets into every part of her foot right in front of my eyes. This is putting a strain on my relationship, I find it very rude and unacceptable.
He tells me that it’s not intimate at all and that I’m just being insecure. He says there’s no feelings for that person so that it shouldn’t matter but I think you have to have certain boundaries in a relationship no matter what. He says I should ask around and see what people say on the situation.
TLDR; I feel neglected, disrespected and I doubt myself and our relationship. Am I just insecure and overthinking?
Update: So I have a straight male friend on dial and he’s gonna come around and massage eachother. Fiancé doesn’t know about it yet and he’s gonna walk in on it. If he gets upset and finally sees what I mean then I’m gonna give him the ultimatum to cut that friend off or if he wants to be a hypocrite and think he’s the only one who can do this then I’m going to walk. My best friend knows about all of this and she has a place lined up for me to stay at. I will let you guys know how it went. Thanks guys :)
Submitted January 09, 2022 at 01:05AM by lmaoihateya https://ift.tt/3JUlp9a
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