BF (30M) gets bummed when he gets invited to more fun stuff after already making plans with me (29F)

Bf often gets invited to more fun stuff w his friends after we already made plans together. I understand feeling bummed about having to miss something u really want to do AND I also understand feeling bummed about being ditched

My bf tries not to show that he’s bummed but I can tell whenever that situation comes up.

If he chooses to stick with his plans with me, then I feel like I’m holding him back from things he really wants to do and like I’m ‘forcing’ him to hang with me. When we do end up doing the event he & I planned, I can tell he’s wishing he was dirtbiking w his friends instead, even tho he tries not to show it

But if he decides to ditch me and hang w his boys instead, I then feel bummed and jilted about it

It’s like either way, one person ends up sad. How to deal?

TLDR: BF gets bummed when he gets invited to more fun stuff w friends after already making plans with me. How to deal?

Submitted January 02, 2022 at 01:41AM by Sarjo432 https://ift.tt/3mQDJWK