So, my boyfriend of 2 years, has several close friends. He loves hanging out with them, he loves talking to them, and has strong relationships with them. This is my first relationship, and I didn’t realize just how lonely I would feel in comparison to him, because I don’t have many close friends, and the ones I do have, don’t live in my area.
We live about an hour away from each other, by transit. When he’s spending the day with his friends, he’ll check up on me once throughout, and will call me when he gets home to see how I’ve been. He knows that I get lonely, which is not something that I try to show, or try to make him feel bad about being with his friends.
I’ve noticed that I’m starting to envy what he has. I just want to know what I can do to not feel so lonely when I’m not with my boyfriend. It feels like he’s the only person I can come to, whereas he has a good amount of other people besides me. I want to not feel like my mood depends on my boyfriend hanging out with me/directly cheering me up.
TL;DR: My boyfriend has many friends, I hardly have any. How do I make myself feel less lonely?
Submitted May 24, 2021 at 07:07PM by Appropriate_Cod151 https://ift.tt/3fgS1fO
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