I'm a bridesmaid in a friend's (25F) wedding. We went for her bachelorette party last weekend. Basically, she hooked up with a guy (everything but sex). She didn't ask her fiance (25M) for a hall pass or anything and told us to act like it never happened. But I feel super guilty and she doesn't feel guilty at all. I feel like it is not right to do that, even during a bachelorette party, especially without discussing boundaries. I've been cheated on before and don't want to encourage anything like it. She's cheated before (once, as far as I know) and he doesn't know about that, either. I put myself in her fiance's shoes and I feel like I would want to know about it. I'm decent friends with him, too. I also feel partially responsible, like I could have prevented it from happening. She told us she wanted to kiss him, and we let her be alone with him. She didn't tell us until later the extent to what happened. I'm tempted to tell him anonymously or something because she won't. They're getting married in less than a month and have been together for 7 years.
TL;DR: Friend hooked up with a stranger during her bachelorette party, now I don't know if it is right to tell her fiance.
Submitted May 24, 2021 at 09:14PM by ena129 https://ift.tt/3bUsib8
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