My Fiance has recently regained his interest in playing COD all night and then sleeping all day.
He's currently not working but I work a 9-6pm schedule waking up at 7am to make him breakfast and get ready for the day.
We currently are living with my family and we have a room together, he plays in the corner of our room and there's not much room for him to play in the living room. Lately, I've only been getting about 3-5 hours of sleep at night due to him screaming at random times of the night then I go to work exhausted.
About two days ago, I told him I was on the end of my rope about him playing all night and being very loud. I felt like he should be more considerate about me sleeping and I asked him how would he feel if I did that to him? I sleep with a blindfold and ear plugs but his screaming is still way too loud. He tells me that gaming makes him very happy and I shouldn't take away his happiness. I told him that I wasn't taking away his gaming or his time from it, I just wanted him to play during the day and come to bed with me at night. I compromised with him and told him he can play at night if he's quiet just until he starts working again.
Well, that solution only lasted a day. This morning he started screaming again around 4am and I told him to quiet down. Around 6:30am he started screaming and talking loudly, I told him to quiet down and he responded "well you're going to wake up in 30 minutes anyways, so you might as well just stay up."
Before I went to work this morning, I reminded him about our compromise and he just got annoyed and brushed me off, he told me that "I saw you sleeping, don't say you didn't sleep. You just want to take away my gaming and I don't know why you have such a problem with it. It makes me happy." I responded saying "well, if gaming makes you so happy you can go game somewhere else." (such as going back to his moms).
I really don't mind him gaming, at all. I know it's a hobby and I would never want to take that away from him. I love hearing his laugh and petty talk but all I want is some sleep.
We haven't spoke since this morning, but now I'm feeling as if I'm being really selfish. As much as I love him and I want this relationship to work, I just hate going to work feeling so exhausted and sick.
TL;DR: Fiance plays games all night, doesn't let me sleep. Am I selfish?
Submitted October 01, 2020 at 09:58AM by thatboringasian https://ift.tt/33kDxpn
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