We’ve been together for almost 2 years. Over the course of our relationship she’s gained about 60 pounds. She currently weighs 240 and I weigh 175. I would never tell her up front that I want her to lose weight because that would be extremely rude, so I’ve been bottling in these feelings for a long time. What I did is I started working out (lifting weights) in order to encourage her to get in shape as well. That’s not working one bit. She eats a lot, drinks soda with most meals, and snacks a lot throughout the day. I told her that I’m personally cutting out snacks/junk food in order to get healthier, hoping that it would encourage her to do the same. Still didn’t work one bit. She tells me all the time that she loves how I don’t judge her eating habits, or her weight gain. But deep down inside, it bugs the shit out of me. I love her so much, and don’t want to make her feel bad. She’s sensitive about her weight gain. Her step dad always tells her that she needs to lose weight, and she tells me how much it hurts her when he says that. She really wants to lose weight herself, but has ZERO self control when it comes to food. She’s the sweetest girl I’ve met in my life, and her face is very beautiful. I’m really concerned about her health and what’s gonna happen when we’re older. I can’t fathom leaving her because I lover her too much. I feel like I’m in a cage and I don’t know what to do.
Tl;dr: My girlfriend has gained an excessive amount of weight and I don’t know how to tell her that it bothers me
Submitted October 25, 2020 at 01:53PM by No-Sky-793 https://ift.tt/2Tn7krJ
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