Hi Reddit, hopefully you can sense some lights into this situation.
My fiancé and I been together for 4 years. Healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. When we argue, we usually resolve it within a day. He’s everything i wanted in a partner.
We’re both immigrants moved from our respective countries. I’m Asian and he’s Mexican/Spanish. I’m throwing this information to put more context into the issue I’m currently struggling with, not sure if it matters, but anyways..
I needed to check something from work earlier today but my laptop was dead, so I grabbed his with his permission. I went to Instagram afterwards and I notice that he’s still logged on on the site. I didn’t know what came over me, but I went to his DM. Long story short I saw an exchange between him and his female best friend back home. She was replying to his story and notice my sex toy in the background. The conversation evolved to him asking her if she has one and what colour her vibrator was. She said that she doesn’t have one and asked him if he recommends her getting one. Then he asked her if she prefers toys or the real ones instead. The whole conversations are in Spanish, and although I don’t speak the language fluently, I can grasp the meaning of it.
I guess the question is, I’m not sure if this is just how they joke, if this is a cultural thing that maybe I’m not familiar with. I’m not even sure if I should bring it up. So Reddit, help out this girl out.
Tl;dr: confusing exchange between fiancé and a friend. Help.
Submitted June 24, 2020 at 04:29PM by Sinunamorph https://ift.tt/37XucEs
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