Today I felt like my fiancĂ© was ribbing me a lot, making fun of everything I said or did. It was really starting to grate on me but I was just trying to let it go. We got home from shopping and he was looking up his card pin because he’d forgotten it at the store. He said he found it online and I asked, “does it make sense?” meaning like, does everything look right/does he know now why he forgot it idk something like that.
He immediately got this grin on his face and said in a super condescending tone, “does it make sense? What kind of a question is that?”
By this point I was so fed up with the way he’d been overly critical of everything I was saying and doing that I said, “I don’t know, I guess a really fucking stupid one.”
He said absolutely nothing to this, which really upset me, because he just hadn’t been kind. I walked away for a bit but he still didn’t say anything about the fact I was clearly upset, so I started pointing out that he was being really rude and teasing too much and acting like I was an idiot. He totally denied it and wanted me to name a ton of examples but I couldn’t other than the most recent cause it wasn’t like I had been making mental notes and I was trying to just let everything go.
I had said to him when unloading groceries that I felt he was being really overly critical because I left something in the front seat for a second to put something else in a bag first and clear up my hands and he was like, “what’re you doing? You’re just going to leave that stuff there?” I explained no just give me a minute etc.
We’ve talked before about how much he ribs me really bothers me and is getting to me, and he says I just need to “not take things so personally.”
Anyway I continued to express to him that I felt like he didn’t care about my feelings and he eventually said to me “I’m sick of you,” and that my question had been “fucking stupid.”
I just feel really hurt. I don’t know what to do.
TLDR: fiancĂ© called a question I asked “fucking stupid” and told me he was sick of me after I expressed I didn’t like the way he was treating me today
Submitted June 25, 2020 at 11:22AM by throwawayyyyawayyaya https://ift.tt/2VjKwdU
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