My husband wanted me to give him a haircut today. He hasn’t had his haircut since February and has thick, curly hair ethnically Indian hair. He goes to a fancy salon usually. A couple years ago he let me cut his hair the day before his hair appointment and he’s spent the last 2 years or so telling friends that the one time I gave him a haircut it looked like a bowl, and that his hairdresser told him it was terrible and basically making fun of my hair cutting.
Fast forward to today. His hair had gotten really long (almost shoulder length) and he likes it a longer but classic type men’s haircut. With longer on top for product. I tried my hardest. I took about an hour and tried hard to not make it a bowl. I had told him he couldn’t look until it was done because the “bowl” shape last time was because he kept nit picking and didn’t let me finish it.
This time he said I must be being very careful and he felt like I was doing a good job. Until he decided he had to look at it before it was done and freaked out. He started screaming at me and got really, really, REALLY angry. He started yelling that I want careful and ruined his hair, calling me fucking disgusting and other names, and just being very mean. I told him it wasn’t done, etc, but he would t sit back down. Then I was going to leave the room because of his screaming abs he was screaming that I had to finish it. I refused and said I wouldn’t be treated that way when I was trying my best.
I took a shower and came back to tell him how I had tried my best and that I’m sorry if he doesn’t like it and he was still extremely mean and angry. He was calling more names and screaming full volume. I started crying and yelled repeatedly that I’m not going to be treated this way when I tried my best.
Anyway, we are supposed to be seeing houses to buy today in 2 hours for a first home purchase (which is also his idea and I don’t want to buy a house now, but that’s another issue) which is why he wanted the haircut. I’m crying and upset and he’s really angry. I feel like knowing him he’ll vacillate between giving me the silent treatment and screaming while driving to the houses and it will ruin out house shopping. We only get one time to see each house due to the virus so we can’t see it anywhere day for a better experience.
I’m not sure what to do now.
TLDR: husband got (I feel) irrationally mad at the haircut I gave him today and we have to see houses to buy in 2 hours.
Submitted June 26, 2020 at 10:58AM by CityStuck https://ift.tt/3eB4Les
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