We’ve been dating three years. Everything else has been great but there’s this one issue that keeps popping up.
We’re both 21 and still live at home so I go to his house to hang out. When I’m there we usually just watch films/YouTube videos which is really fun as I love films and we’re spending time together.
The only problem is, we always watch what he wants to watch. We watch his videos, his movies, we listen to the music he wants to listen to. If I ask to listen to a song, he’ll oblige but I only get that one song and that’s it.
Earlier this week I put on a film that he didn’t like and he complained about it so much I just decided to turn it off. He complained that we always do what I wanna do. I was shocked as this is so not the case. He’s somehow got it into his head that we’re always watching what I wanna watch? Like, all he wants to watch is anime and I’m fine with it but don’t tell me we’re watching what I want to watch. I confronted him and told him that I can’t remember the last time I got to choose the film we watched. Is this a control thing or am I making too big of a deal about this? It’s his computer after all (a thought he tells me when I complain) and I am there just to spend time with him but the problem is I’m not really enjoying the time spent together as it’s always on his terms. How do I convey this to him?
Tl;dr My boyfriend has got it into his head that we’re always doing what I want to do - this isn’t true. How can I point out to him that we always do what he wants?
Submitted June 24, 2020 at 12:31PM by ThrowRA-RedBull5Ever https://ift.tt/31e2DFR
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