Hi All,
Throwaway as my friends / family know my main account.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years, and for the most part we have a really great relationship. I live in my own place and he lives with his parents and we both have jobs and make solid income. He sometimes will stay over for a couple nights a week. We usually split everything, we don’t have any joint expenses or anything like that. When we go out to dinners, we always split the bill.
Here comes my issue. I know this isn’t really a big issue but it was something that kind of bothered me. I was going to go out with my friends to a nightclub, and my boyfriend was at my house just chilling watching TV while I was getting ready. I called my Uber and the Uber was on its way and I realize that there was a cover charge to get into the nightclub of about $30.
I know it’s my bad but I didn’t have any cash on me or in my house. I asked my boyfriend if I could have 30 bucks because I knew he had a cash on him at the time. He said “no I mean you can just take it out at the ATM when you get to the nightclub.” I have been to that night club before and I know there is an ATM about four blocks away and also incurs a service fee. I didn’t really want to make the trek there and waste me or my friends time, even though I know I probably should.
I explained that to him, but he said that I should still just go to the ATM and that he was not willing to give me the $30. I’m not sure why he wasn’t willing to give me the $30 so I asked him and he said it’s not his responsibility and I should have been more prepared.
I was pretty hurt by this, not so much so about the money but it was more about the fact that he wasn’t willing to help me out when I needed it, even though it’s such a minor thing. I’m not sure if I’m overreacting about this but definitely hurt my feelings I’m not really sure what to do.
Tl;dr: SO would not give me $30 when I asked him for it
Submitted September 21, 2019 at 07:32PM by throwaway72282938 https://ift.tt/2NsGu0e
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