My gf and I have been together for about a year now. Shes 20 I just turned 22, both in college.
I remember about a month ago I pulled a load out of my laundry and saw a black bralette in the dryer. I assumed it was hers so I put it in my underwear drawer and forgot about it.
Today we did my laundry and she saw the black bra in my underwear drawer and asked me who's it was. I had no idea that they weren't hers. She's been extremely upset all day and very short with me. Told me we should spend the night at our respective houses tonight and it really sucks.
I live with 2 other guys, so the only way I can rationalize it is that one of them had a girl over who left their bra, and then I unfortunately found it in the dryer and assumed it was my girlfriends.
There's nothing I can do or say, I feel like the more vehemently I deny it, the more guilty I look. The less I deny it, the more guilty I look. She said she loves and trusts me but it's planted a seed of doubt in her mind about our relationship and needs to sleep on it to see what we should do about it. I haven't seen her since this morning but we've sporadically talked through text throughout the day.
She says that if something like this happens again the relationship is over, which honestly I can totally understand. I'd be extremely apprehensive and skeptical if I found a pair of guys underwear in her drawer.
I feel like I'm stuck in a damned if I do, damned if I don't situation and am wondering how to go about this.
Should I just give her space? That seems to be the only thing I can think to do.
tl;dr: I saw a bra in dryer with my clothes, thought it was gfs so I put it away in my dresser, gf finds it and it isn't hers. What do I do.
Submitted September 25, 2019 at 07:51PM by feldevourer https://ift.tt/2nnuRvI
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