My original post didn't get much attention but I still wanted to update you guys on what has happened since.
I (f25) thought a lot about what I should do after reading the replies I got and decided to wait a little since I know he's been trying to get rid of her. After a few weeks I called a friend of mine, Nina(f23) who was working with Daisy ( f21 the abusive fiance) and Nina told me so much shit that Daisy had been spewing at work about Max.
Daisy said that Max was abusing HER and painted him as some monster to everyone at work and then she lied about a pregnancy and kept talking about how the fetus wasn't growing when she'd already told Max that she'd lost it.
That's just part of what Nina told me and what I am leaving out is way worse than that.
After talking to Nina I thought on it for a week or so and called both of Max's brothers, A and J, and told them what I had heard and they talked to max about what I'd told them very vaguely and he called me and wanted me to tell him everything, which I did. I first made sure he was in a safe place and then told him everything Nina told me. He just listened and took it all in and then afterwards he said "yeah this is over" and told me he'd been trying to get out of this for a while but it's hard escape when Daisy was threatening him with suicide if he left her! Both Nina and I got out of abusive relationships and I told him that my abuser threatened me with it constantly but it was just to control me and I told Max that if he ever needed to talk about it he could always call me and I also told him to read on loveisrespect.org like someone suggested.
Then about a week ago he sends me that he is a free man! Almost 2 weeks after I'd told him all of this and I am soooooo happy! I know it had been the plan for him to break up with her for a while but after I told him all that Nina told me it was like what helped him finally get out and see just how Daisy is.
TL;DR : I meddled a little and my friend got out of an abusive relationship and I couldn't be happier for him !
Submitted May 27, 2019 at 05:05PM by imgonnathrowawah http://bit.ly/2QumVU3
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