I'm Asian, and my boyfriend is white. I'm proud of my heritage and I take ANY type of racist jokes seriously. My boyfriend was a lowkey douche when I met him and he knows that I don't tolerate racism.
We were watching a movie together and he said "ching chong" as a little Chinese girl was speaking. I gave him a disapproving look and said "don't say it again".
In less than a few seconds later, he said it again.
Because I grew up in a Chinese speaking household and kids in my elementary school used to joke around with "ching chong" and "ling ling", I became furious. Gave him the silent treatment for the rest of the hour and basically told him to get out of my house. For the rest of the hour he kept apologizing and kissing me but there's no real sincerity behind it. I'm still mad and teary at him for being so immature, but I don't know if I did the right thing?
TL;DR! Boyfriend said "ching chong" and I'm angry as hell.
edit: I love him like crazy and he's the sweetest guy I've met, but he cracks inappropriate jokes.
Submitted May 27, 2019 at 03:46PM by RudeCharacter http://bit.ly/2JGBNy5
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