My ex boyfriend and I saw each other for about 5 months, and I broke up with him about a month and a half ago due to a variety of issues, but we both truly wanted to work on them and try to get back together. I thought that taking this time to work on himself would help our relationship in the long run, but we have been fighting even more and it has been incredibly draining on me. We got in an argument last weekend, and I couldn't take it anymore, so I told him that I didn't want to fix things anymore and was done with him.
A few hours after this, he asks me when he can get his things back(which is fine and normal), but then asked me to give him the butt plugs he gave me back as well. I was confused and honestly grossed out by this, as I have used them. He says that it pisses him off thinking about how I could potentially use the butt plugs with another partner and that he bought them for us, not me.
I honestly got quite upset, and called him possessive for caring so much about who I want to have sex with in the future, and hypocritical, as a past ex gave me a vibrator and he wanted to use it with me during sex despite it being a gift from a previous partner of mine. He got pissed, said I invalidated his feelings and that I said those things to make him feel bad. He says he wants the butt plugs back so he can throw them away. I told him that if he wanted the butt plugs back, then I would also give him the other things he gave me back as well. I just don't agree with his reasoning and feel weird giving used sex toys back to him. Am I in the wrong?
TL;DR Ex boyfriend wants butt plugs he gave me back so that I won't use them with other people. Is this weird? What do I do?
Submitted May 27, 2019 at 02:36PM by sapphicwoman http://bit.ly/2I2Dend
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