I know a lot of comments will be along the lines of "social media doesn't define relationships" or "you don't have to broadcast your relationship to the world for it to be real" blah blah. Hear me out.
Firstly, we've been together for a little over a year, with a month break a while back. But, my (18f) boyfriend (19m) will not post me on any type of social media. I don't think it's because he is trying to hide our relationship, anyone who knows us personally knows we are together. he won't give me a straight reason as to why. It's always "I don't think about it" "you just want attention" or "it isn't important". He is pretty active on social media. Posts pictures of his pets, his work, old memories of his buddies, and birthday posts for his friends. He has posted me twice, but they were super long ago and to give an idea of what they were like, one caption was "happy birthday bitch". The times I've posted about him, he's asked me to take them down.
Now, this wouldn't usually bother me, but he used to post about his ex-girlfriends (19f) and (20f). From the ones I've seen, they were really nice. A few of them were during our month break up when he started dating his ex again. He also would comment on their Instagram posts. Not once have they have been mine, sometimes he doesn't even like mine. Still likes all his exes posts.
I probably sound crazy, hell even typing this I feel crazy. But if there are even a few people who can offer any information as to why he does this, I'd love to hear it. Also, I'd like to add that our relationship is much different than what I know about his past ones. He talks to me more, makes the effort to see me more often, and is willing to try things I like.
TL:DR boyfriend used to posts about his ex-girlfriends often, but doesn't of me. Doesn't like when I post about him either. he won't talk about the real reason why either. So, are there any ideas of what the reason may be?
Submitted May 02, 2019 at 02:34PM by tonberry16 http://bit.ly/2VbZfJJ
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