Tl;dr:
My boyfriend is lazy, has a new job. When I ask for help because I can barely get out of bed he complains he has so little free time and begrundgely do what I ask but its clear he doesnt want to. And he asks for my help to get ready every morning
End of tl;dr
Just like the title says, I went through a major surgery recently and it requires a lot of care and maintenance, I shouldn't lift things above 4.5kg and I certainly cannot go out. I have had to both lift things or go out due to emergencies before and I already feel like my surgery was impacted.
Now on to my boyfriend. He just started a new job at 17$/h at an entry position in a large company, which is a very important step for us, he has to wake up early and go to sleep early, which can be accomodated on my end.
But when he's home, I have to get angry for him to help me, even minor things as simple as asking him to help me clean things he only do them because he's forced to help me because he's my boyfriend.
He keeps saying he has no free time but like, I'm barely able to get out of bed? I manage during the day when he's at work but I would really appreciate more help from him.
On top of that, he's so disorganised that he always needs help in the morning before work, and he gets angry when I cant physically help him
What should I do at this point? I'm seriously mad about it.
Submitted May 04, 2019 at 07:38AM by FeedMeTheBiscuits http://bit.ly/2vCthXN
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