(I’m on mobile so sorry I’m advance) Me and boyf have been dating for nearly a year, and even before that I’ve been a teary thing that cries if she sees ducks on the side of the road, or squashed ducks on the side of the road. Before when I’d cry bf would joke “oh no not again” or “you silly bean”, however now if even my mouth twitches or an eye glazes I’m met with “don’t you fucking dare cry”
So cue to this weekend, in the UK it was mental drink time and I’d let the bf know some girl friends of mine had invited me out for drinks, boyf was completely encouraging telling me I never go out. I was super nervous but went anyway. He said he’d drop me off at the bar, and closer to that time he was getting annoyed because he was tired, fair enough. It was a great night, saw loads of college mates who were actually so happy to see me. It really touched a chord with me. It was an amazing ego boost after feeling so low and stressed.
At 3:30 I got a taxi back to my bfs house, as he starts work at half 4 and he’d be awake (he was happy with this when I explained the night before) he sees me and tells me to “go back to bed” “you’ll just annoy me” because I was apparently so drunk. I instead sit next to him in the kitchen eating cereal, and just told him happily that I had loads of fun and thank you for dropping me off. Told him that even though I had fun I was excited to see him after it. He replied he’s too tired and he’d rather I’d go away to bed. So obviously tipsy me starts tearing up, and I quietly said I’m sorry for crying it’s just the contrast between my friends earlier and him now was a shock. He increasingly got angry until he grabbed my arms and pushed me into a weird seated hugging position and told me to stop it. When he came back from work he instantly kissed me and said sorry he was tired.
Normally I’d put it down to me being tipsy and I’m worried I hadn’t interpreted what happened correctly, but before when I’ve cried he’s purposely pretended not to hear, and he’s hit objects when I haven’t stopped.
I’m not sure what to do as he’s absolutely caring and lovely, and we have the most amazing time together besides, and I understand I’m probably just immature but I need a outside opinion on how I could address/solve this or some tips on how to stop being sensitive
TL;DR I cry, bf angry. I come in happy, bf angry. What am I doing wrong?
Submitted May 07, 2019 at 02:59AM by Popadomchair http://bit.ly/2VGRhI7
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