(28f) My boyfriend (29m) of 4.5 years posted on social media a picture with another girl and then a video of her at a hotel room to "get my attention."

Sorry long story...First time here guys. Need solid advice. So we moved to my home city in March. We were on the verge of buying a house together and everything. He has been stressed from the move and his new job. He has been verbally disrespectful and so I kicked him out and said I need space and called off the house purchase.

We have been talking on and off since I kicked him out trying to work things out. I stayed with him over the weekend and things seemed to be going well. I told him I need more time before living with him again. He thought that isn't the way to work on things and we kind of left it at that.

Then on Tuesday he went to a concert with friends...which I'm totally okay with and want him to have fun.

Then on Wednesday night he posted on snap story a picture of a girl...and then that same girl at a hotel room with him...

I immediately called him in the am and he stated "he just wanted to get my attention" because he loves me so much and claims they didnt do anything and he just stayed with her to not drink and drive...its such bs and a low blow.

I am so hurt that he would do that He claims he has ever cheated on me ever and wants us to get back together. I just now feel like I cant trust him.

TL;DR my boyfriend of 4.5 years possibly cheated on me physically while we are trying to work things out. Should I just move on or try to salvage it.

Submitted May 03, 2019 at 11:56AM by saltyseaotter http://bit.ly/2J9w5nk