We´re together for a year. Recently we problems. He has this unhealthy relationship with his mom. She´s very possessive of him, jealous of me, her little boy. He´s 24 and lives with them. Im 25 and live on my own.
We spent Christmas with them. Nice. Family time so I appreciated being with them as my family lives in a different country. Every New Yrs Eve he spent with his parents at home,eating 12 grapes at midnight, as is Spanish tradition.He "assumed" I understood we´ll spend it like this and then go out. He´s so attached to his parents, and particularly mom, that he would rather make me spend it alone than leaving his parents.
He tells me that I shouldn't force him to change his traditions. So we´ll spend every new yrs eve with his parents? I told him that maybe ill just need to accept that well never spend it together and he didn't deny that.
Sometimes I feel like Ill never win and be the most important for him. Twice he has done huge mistakes yet I forgave him. But now again, accept it or leave. What should I do? TL;DR
Submitted December 28, 2018 at 05:56AM by espinamariposa http://bit.ly/2LDUgt9
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