So I've been with my husband for about 9 years, we got married not long ago. Almost everything about our relationship is amazing, except we very rarely have sex. For the first few years we had a great sex life, he's a bit of a prude but we would do it quite often, about 3-4 times a week. He even used to wake me up super early for it sometimes (I was always willing). Since we started living together it's happened less and less. We have talked about it a few times, but nothing has changed and he gets very uncomfortable talking about sex. I used to chalk it up to the fact I wasn't being obvious enough when I tried to initiate, however yesterday I suggested we go to bed at about 7pm, and literally put my boobs in his face. He said "it's too early for sleep" so I replied "I know" with my boobs still in his face (not exaggerating, they were literally touching his face). Still nothing. I'd say for the past few years we've only done it about 6-7 times a year at most. Nothing I do seems to help, I've tried being subtle, dressing up sexy, outright saying "let's have sex" (he thinks I am joking when I do this). He still kisses and cuddles me, and will sometimes try to initiate but it's always when he knows we can't do anything, like when I'm leaving for work in the morning. I'm just not sure what else I can do, I feel rejected, ugly, and frustrated. Also worth noting, I mentioned a few months ago that I'd like to buy a vibrator, which he had a problem with.
Sorry to ramble, any advice would be appreciated, I don't know how long I can carry on like this. Sorry for formatting am on mobile. I'm also at work so may not be able to respond to anyone straight away.
TL:DR husband doesn't want sex, what do?
Submitted November 15, 2018 at 04:52AM by grumpyladle https://ift.tt/2qMyLwF
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