Hi everyone. New here so please bear with me. I (f29) have been with my bf(m31) for nearly two and a half years and most of it has been during covid and lockdown so alot of times indoors in the flat. Yesterday he told me that he doesn't like kissing me or being physical with me if I am not dressed up even if we are only in the flat such as if I am in night wear or tshirts. He said he finds this insulting to him that I do not take care of my appearance and that he cannot be physical with me if I am dressed this way. I was a little hurt by this as I have for a while felt that he does not find me attractive in general and this is why he does not like to kiss or hug me even in private. I don't mind that he does not like PDA although he also dislikes holding my hand in public and will pull away if I try to hold it however he seems to let me every now and again the last few months.
Does anyone have any views on this or advice? I am a little confused and this is my first proper relationship.
Tdlr: boyfriend does not like intimacy if I am in certain clothes and seems to not like kissing and holding hands. Not sure if he just doesn't find me to be attractive in general or only likes me when dressed up as he finds it a turn off when I'm in certain casual clothing like tshirts.
Submitted January 06, 2022 at 09:48PM by Fit-Ad-5130 https://ift.tt/3f0AtUo
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