I (26F) am in a relationship with my boyfriend (30M). We have been dating since August 2021. He has been very eager to move forward with our relationship, many times at a pace that I am extremely uncomfortable with. He has a daughter, and he introduced me to her (5F) a few weeks after we had met, which I thought was too soon. He has primary custody of her so she is very much involved in our relationship. He is now asking me to move in with him to the suburbs closer to his family, and I feel that he may be pushing me too much out of my comfort zone. I live now with one roommate in an apartment walking distance from the beach. I like my area and I just moved here not too long ago. I just relocated my life now that I am working from home, and I like the freedom to walk by the beach and explore activities in my area. My boyfriend (30M) is very sweet and we get a long great, but we have had many arguments about moving forward at such a fast pace in our relationship. I don’t feel comfortable spending so much time with his daughter or with moving in with him and he doesn’t seem to understand. I am still unsure about our relationship, and every time I list reasons as to why I’m not ready to move in with him, he refuses to see my perspective. What should I do?
Edit: An extra fact is that we have also discussed a pre-nup in the event that we were ever to get married. He became frustrated with me and said that we are too poor for a pre-nup, which I don’t think is true. Although I don’t really have assets, I have enough to make a down payment on a home, and I earn a median salary. He has some debt & no savings, but also earns a median salary as well. In what cases should couples sign a pre-nup?
TL;DR: My (26F) boyfriend (30M) is asking me to move in with him. We have only been dating for five months. He has a child (5F) and lives in the suburbs.
Submitted January 05, 2022 at 02:06AM by Greedy-Bat-3375 https://ift.tt/3pYB67m
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