I’ll try and be short. My husband and I have been together for 12 years. He’s always worked, and I’ve stayed home with the kids since I had my daughter at 19.
He made enough for us so I didn’t really need to work. But 5 years ago, since all my kids were in school, I decided maybe I’d try and earn some money. So I started a business from home. I didn’t need to take out any loans or anything. Since we had a lot of money saved. I worked really hard in the beginning. To no avail.
But after a couple years of little to no profit I changed my approach and actually started making money. Last year Due to his company closing, my husband was laid off. I am still home as well. And there’s been some friction (?). Mostly on his part.
He’s just a bit weird about money all of a sudden. When he made all of it, he never cared about what I spent. Now he micromanages me. My sister said he may be trying to feel some sort of control. But That doesn’t make sense to me really. Since he never controlled me before. And even now he is still the head of our household so to speak. In my eyes that is.
But we got into a fight, and he insinuated that I didn’t want to give him a blowjob because he, “doesn’t pay the bills”…..but I just had a toothache. Now I feel like he may not be as okay with the shift as I previously assumed. I’d ask…..but before I bring it up I’d like to see if any redditors have a perspective that could open my eyes.
TL;DR! My husband lost his job. I still make money. And now I’m wondering if it bothers him.
Submitted September 25, 2021 at 12:48AM by ThrowRA_JigglrWiggle https://ift.tt/2Y2mAjv
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