My (26F) fiance (25M) fell in love with another woman and is ready to throw everything away for a woman he has never met

I don't even know where to start. Maybe I just need to get it out there.

My fiance and I have been dating for 7 years now. We have been living together for 6. After 3 years o decided I needed a sabbatical and wanted to go to Australia for 1 year (work and travel). He supposed me and even proposed to me so we can have something solid while I was away. It worked pretty well. He was even so intrigued by what I told him, that he wanted to join me as well and we spent another years traveling and working together in Australia. Then corona hit and we sadly had to leave to get back home. It was all great. We rested a bit and he was then able to find a good job and later me as well. We got a puppy and planned big things (Like buying a house together).

Once the daily business settled in it became more quiet. I was still happy with what we had. We had been best friends and are fitting together really well. Nothing of that changed. I however noticed that he wasn't THAT happy. We tried to talk about it, but couldn't get a conclusion what was wrong. We assumed it was because I didn't show him enough affection (not enough was that I didn't do lovey-dovey 24/7, didn't want to cuddle every free minute, I NEVER was like that and he knew that). I was still there for him when he needed me. I supported him best I could.

Now it happens that he had a kink I couldn't suffice (daddy/little girl, google it if you want to know more). I was just never the type for this and he knew and I knew. So he proposed that he maybe look somewhat else to get that kink. I reluctantly agreed and layed ground rules (no sex, no meeting, I come first). He agreed and we went on. He then met a woman on a discord server and kinda just clicked with her. They chatted, they did their thing and so on. I noticed how he spent more and more time with her (all online I might add, they only voice called or chatted) and less with me. When I confronted him about it he admitted that he had feelings for her. He said he still loves me, but he also liked her. I just hoped it was just a phase (he do be like that). But now, 3 weeks later it looks like I'm the one that has to leave.

He realizes what he has (a fiance that loves him, is supportive in all he does and is faithful) and yet he rather wants to be with a woman he never met in his live, he never even has SEEN (except for a few crappy Snapchat filter pics).

I just don't know what do to. I love him, I love our life, what we have build up together. He is ready to throw it all away even though he knows it's wrong. I can't move out so easily. I have the dog and my job life is fairly instable right now. I feel like a failure that I keep running back to him even though he is kicking my feeling with shit covered shoes... I don't know what to do. I'm sorry, I think I just need someone to give an objective option. Am I wrong in trying to fix our relationship, even though it feels like he doesn't want to fix it anymore?

Tldr: My fiance found another woman he never met. He is ready to give up a happy relationship of 7 years for her even though he knows her for less than a month. I'm at a loss of what to do and how to react.

Submitted September 25, 2021 at 10:13PM by XxJudicasxX https://ift.tt/3lUKBB4