My bf and I have been on and off for three years because he wasn’t ready for a committed relationship, he claims he has been super stressed out from a knee injury that inhibited his ability to work and make money, ect.
In September 2020, he reached out promising things would be different and that he was ready for a relationship.
I agreed on certain terms, one of them being no dating sites, delete online profiles (at one point he was on POF, Tinder, bumble, ok Cupid)
A few weeks later, I asked to see his phone and the apps were removed.
I caught him on POF in November; he claimed he selfishly had to check whether he only wanted to be with me and went on and felt nothing. We fought and he deleted his profile (he sent me screenshots)
Meanwhile I create fake accounts when I sense something might be off
Earlier this month, I caught him on tinder but he won’t admit to it. The profile had a meme of forest gump as the picture (this is a meme he has shared with me), otherwise the name, age, distance, interests, and even obscure favourite song matches him. As I got closer to his house the distance showed 1km away.
Thing is he won’t admit that it’s him. When I confronted him, he said it was probably a hater, someone who wanted to break us up or see us unhappy. I told him there’s no way. That if he wants to date other people or needs attention I understand. While discussing this he asked what I was doing online and I told him it’s a friends account. He even pretended to guess my friends name- “he guessed” the fake account name I made.
He honestly looked like he was going to cry when I confronted him. He even started giving me a massage which he never does. I’m like is this some sorta guilt thing from his end? The next day he even met me at my end of the city to go for a walk and talk. He never wants to go for a walk and in three years has never driven out of his way to see me.
My question is what’s going on here? Should I end this relationship?
How can a person claim to love me yet look me in the eyes and continuously deny this was him. He even went as far as to say I can’t accept love. What?
TL;DR - My boyfriend is on tinder using a fake picture, but won’t admit it. I know it was him, he is acting remorseful, but still won’t admit it. Should I end this relationship?
Submitted May 24, 2021 at 02:14PM by champagness https://ift.tt/3vmuJee
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