Me [16M] and my girlfriend [16F] have been together for 10 months. 4 months in while kissing her I slowly moved my hands towards her chest. When moving them over her chest she stopped me and said she's not ready for that yet. I apologized and that was that.
Well recently we were kissing and (remembering the last event) I asked her if it would be ok if I took her bra off. She said she's not comfortable with that yet and she started apologizing over and over again while gettting teary eyed. I kept reasuring her its ok and no need to apologize. She told me she's a bad girlfriend. I just hugged her and kept telling her I love her and she's a great girlfriend. I told its her body and I'm not owed anything that makes her uncomfortable.
However since then she's been different. She asks me like every week if I'm happy in the relationship. I always say yes but she keeps saying she feels bad for not "making me happy" by going further with me. I'm feeling guilty and like I wasn't being respectful of her. Did I mess up by asking her that too soon, should I have waited longer since she already expressed discomfort once before? How do I make her feel better and get her to believe me when I tell her I love her and won't leave her? I swear she makes me so happy and theres zero chance I'm dumping her.
tl;dr My girlfriend feels bad and is scared I'll break up with her after she didn't agree to take things further with me.
Submitted April 23, 2020 at 04:28AM by BaconBrocoli https://ift.tt/2S43PWH
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