Boyfriend's (23/m) checking account is still somehow connected to his parents checking account, so they can monitor it. We're in a serious relationship of 2 and a half years and it makes me (24/f) a little unsettled.

Boyfriend and I plan on marrying within the next couple of years. I don't know if it's normal for a 23 year old to still have his bank account connected to and monitored by his parents?

Don't get me wrong, he still has financial freedom but it makes me feel like his parents don't trust him with his finances. I do trust him with money, he's been saving up really well. He's about to graduate from college with his bachelor's degree… why would they still have strings on his bank account?

Tl;dr boyfriend's checking account is still monitored by his parents and it makes me uncomfortable

Submitted April 27, 2020 at 05:16AM by mrs_piggy_ https://ift.tt/3cTZg9q