My (20F) boyfriend (33M) broke up with me over text at 4am today and blocked me on all platforms. Just wtf???

I don’t even know what to say at this point, I’m just very embarrassed. We’re long distance and met last year, he’s in the US and I’m in the U.K. He flew me out to stay with him a few times and I stayed for three week periods. He’s in the military so I’d cook for him and clean the house ready for when he came home. I’d greet him at the door every night.

A couple of days ago I started a conversation about the future. He said he wanted me to move in with him when I graduate. I explained that Visa’s were complicated and I’d probably need to study a STEM designated programme - we agreed to talk on Saturday. Well Saturday came around and he picked up the phone and kept dodging the conversation and told me he’d call me after his zoom meeting. Then said he had a headache,I called and he didn’t answer.

At 4am he sent me a message saying he didn’t want to be with me anymore. No explanation. And he has blocked me on all platforms. I know you must be thinking I’m an idiot for not seeing the type of guy he was, but I would have never expected him to act like this in a million years. I’m heartbroken, I’ve thrown up from anxiety... I have no idea how I’ll move past this... he planned to come to my graduation next year and called me his girlfriend. I’m devastated... and I have an exam in four days. I can’t even think about studying.

TL;dr I have an exam on Thursday and my boyfriend just broke up with me over text without explanation and blocked me.

Submitted April 25, 2020 at 11:05PM by necessaryonabicycle https://ift.tt/3eW5o34