So we’ve been together for 8 months, were friends before this and are long distance. He’s been sad lately and pretty down on himself. He spent the day alone yesterday and most of the day alone today.
I’ve been trying to comfort him but he would rather isolate himself and be alone. Finally, a little bit ago he said we should hangout and play some Xbox. I agreed and immediately he was kind “bleh.” I tried to initiate conversation and we were talking about pretty states to live and I brought up a state I used to live and how he would love it. I got really into the conversation and started talking about how beautiful this camp my sister used to go to, then was a counselor at, was. As I was talking my boyfriend cut me off and said “Then why’s she so big?” in a pretty mean tone. I went silent and he said he shouldn’t have said that but the damage was done and when he tried to get me to keep talking I wouldn’t because I was now upset and no longer wanted to even talk.
This isn’t the first time he’s made remarks like this towards my family. He’s gone off about how I’m “on another level” than my siblings. Like they’re ugly and fat and I’m just this clean, perfect person compared to them. I don’t know why he does this, they have never said or done anything to him EVER.
What do I even do? I feel terrible. I love him but he’s being so nasty towards my family for no reason... How am I supposed to be with someone who talks like that to people I care about? Is this just something I should cut my losses on and just leave? What do I do? Any advice is welcomed.
TL;DR Bf talks poorly about my siblings
Submitted April 25, 2020 at 06:59PM by baesics https://ift.tt/3eUPDsT
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