I know this will be slightly controversial knowing reddit but I need advice on how to handle the situation so please read the whole post.
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a full year now. We met on Tinder and the reason why we kinda hit it off because we are both very open, especially to each other. It didn't take long to open up about our sexual kinks so we were both open books in regard to that.
My boyfriend knew and at first supported one of my kinks, namely filming videos. We talked in depth before ever trying it out and weighed both the pros and the cons of doing it and after many discussions we decided to give it a shot. We both work in pretty lenient and liberal places so that kinda gave us the green light.
I bought all the equipment needed and even dedicated a whole room at my place for filming the videos. Not only is his face never visible in the videos but I edit and upload the videos as well and as part of our deal we decided to split the earnings 50/50 at first which later changed to 30/70 because he was in need of some extra money and I didn't mind.
We have (well, had at this point) a joint account which even got verified and we were actually making decent extra money. Even with the 30% I was actually making more money from the videos than my actual job so I quit my job to focus on videos. Honestly, our relationship just became better since we started doing it.
Until, yesterday, out of nowhere without warning my boyfriend decided to delete every video we've uploaded from the account, changed the password and suddenly doesn't want to do it anymore. I understand that, completely but by deleting the videos and not making them private instead and locking me out from our joint account, I have no income at all.
He isn't giving me concrete reasons as to how this happened and when I brought up the fact that I have no income of any sorts right now because I quit my job, he told me that he'd be okay with me still doing it, even with other people, as long as he gets a percentage until I find a real job and not a pretend pornstar. Those were his exact words.
I'm at a loss of words and I don't know how to react or what to do. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
TL;DR: Me and my boyfriend shared an account on which we uploaded videos of us, he's randomly decided to delete every video on it, changed the password knowing full well it's my only source of income.
Edit; So, I'm not sure how many of you will come back to this thread and read the edit but I managed to have a long conversation with my boyfriend about the whole thing; although he didn't give me a specific reason as to why he did it, we both agreed that it'd be better if we stopped arguing over it and I continue do what I do. I'll be giving him a smaller percentage of the money and filming videos with other people. We both felt like this is the best thing to do.
Submitted January 31, 2020 at 02:24PM by natalie-- https://ift.tt/2tj9gYR
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