My husband has an ex coworker who he has told me that he was once attracted to and potentially might have gotten together if they continued to work together before he met me. They stopped working together since 2016 but have been in contact once in awhile since. He doesn't talk much about her. I didn't think much of it because we both tend to keep to ourselves and I know he doesn't talk much to her at all on the socials.
It was until today that I found a secret gmail that his main email has been sending files to. I logged in because we share the same lastpass app on chrome. I expected to see general porn links and such as stuff like that doesn't bother me at all. But when I came across a few emails sent from his personal email of revealing photos of his ex coworker I got very upset. I am still upset as I am typing this. I am not sure if they are in contact because I don't see him messaging her on social media or liking any of her photos. I feel betrayed and disappointed in him and 50% don't know what I should do.
One thing that made me skeptical of those photos are that they look cropped from his ex coworkers instagram stories. She's not a very modest dresser and loves to show off her underboob/flat stomach/lingerie etc. I know I might be blowing this out of proportion but the thought of him emotionally cheating on me and potentially physically cheating on me is driving me insane. How can I intelligently handle this situation? I have no problem being confrontational and being aggressive but I learned my lesson from past relationships that that just does not work and there is absolutely no satisfaction or closure that comes from it.
TL;DR
Found my husbands secret porn stash gmail.
Found revealing photos of his ex coworker in inbox.
Not sure if they're exchanging photos/messages or if he's being a creep stalker and cropping her insta stories so he can jerk off to them. Either way I feel like I'm being emotionally cheated on.
Submitted January 29, 2020 at 02:54PM by throwaway20393248 https://ift.tt/2u1un2a
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