(F30) my boyfriend (M28) is naturally charming and a bit flirty, but I trust him. Should I keep hanging out with him and a girl I feel he's attracted to, or not go to the pub with them as I prefer not to see it?

10 months relationship, never had a big argument,and I really, really trust him. He's a social butterfly and attracts people,he's also naturally charming with everyone (Even guys).

There's that girl in a group of friends we sometimes hang out with and I feel the attraction between them. While I want to accept that because I feel it's natural and he doesn't go too far (just chatting a lot with her and I can see his eyes sparkle), it does hurt my feelings.

I'm thinking that, I'd rather not go out with this group of friends so I won't have to sense that mutual attraction again.

Does that make sense ?

Advice welcome, especially from men actually!

TL;DR! I sense my Boyfriend is attracted to a girl in a specific group of people, and though it's natural I wonder if I shouldn't just avoid these hang outs not to have to see that anymore.

EDIT : thinking of it, he's not really flirting. He just looks at her with sparkling eyes and chats a lot with her during these parties. It doesn't go further. It does appear to me that he's charmed and interested and hurts me because of my insecurities. But we only meet her like once every two months.. it's very rare

Submitted January 26, 2020 at 06:46AM by thislakeisgreat https://ift.tt/2Rs9SEy