It began one year ago (2018). He is addicted to porn and it's affecting our relationship in a bad way before that's why I decided to watch it together since I watch porn occasionally and think that it would help our relationship.
Then today, I realized that we almost always have to watch porn every time we planned to have sex even though sometimes I'm not in the mood to watch and just want to have sex. I can't tell him because I don't want him to be sad since I knew he is addicted to it but now, I no longer want to have sex if we have to watch porn.
Am I being sensitive? Is watching porn always before having sex normal? I'm really confused.
Also, every time that I leave the house he spent almost two hours looking at r/ nsfw and watch porn when he felt aroused with the pictures. I confronted him about it and said that I understand him. I really, though. It's just that I hate that he barely see me if we don't watch porn. And I feel it when he is tired with masturbating because if I do something "sexy" he is not in the mood and ignores me.
Sorry for the long post and some grammatical errors if there is any since english is not my mother tongue.
TL;DR: Boyfriend always want us to watch porn before having sex. It was fun at first but now I am no longer comfortable with it. Am I being unreasonable? Should I really just normalized it?
TIA to those who will take some time to give advice.
Edit: Thank you everyone for giving me some of your time to help me sort this thing out. I'll talk to him and will give him an ultimatum that if he couldn't stop his porn addiction, I'll leave. No buts, no ifs.
P. S. Always wash your hands and wear a surgical mask when going out especially to those who live here in Asia. Corona virus is not a joke and always remember that prevention is better than cure.
Submitted January 30, 2020 at 08:50AM by darthmamacat https://ift.tt/2uNcFiS
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