My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. At first his hygiene was not bad but it has gotten progressively worse, maybe because he's comfortable in the relationship. Here's what's going on:
-his clothes constantly smell like body odor. He sweats a lot and you can smell him from across the room. It's embarrassing -all of his shoes smell like feet. He doesn't tie his shoes either so even his nicest pairs of shoes look like they've been through a war -he wears clothes with stains and holes -his genitalia always smells fishy and it really kills the mood, I often don't want to have sex because of it -he wipes his hands after eating on his clothes -whenever he leaves my house my bed always smells like his feet or sweat. When he stays over i always have to wash the sheets because it smells like vinegar -he leaves my room a mess whenever he leaves
I am a very clean person and he gets mad, understandably, and quite defensive when I bring up these issues. He's tried changing a bit but nothing is really working. I am tired of his hygiene effecting myself, my room, and others smelling him as well. I don't really know what to do at this point. He is not poor and had a maid growing up so I'm assuming he never really had to clean for himself, his room at his house is a mess, with rotting food everywhere and no sheets on his bed. I just don't really know what to do. Thank you for reading
TL;DR: Boyfriend has poor personal hygiene and cleanliness in general. Gets defensive when I ask him to change. I have tried talking to him but nothing is working.
Submitted September 22, 2019 at 01:37PM by asimplethrowaway123 https://ift.tt/2ksRKNc
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