Im a married woman in my late 20s and I’ve noticed that none of my female friends ever last. I’m well off and people consider me attractive. I try to be nice and attentive to people, polite, ask them questions, be considerate, give advice when asked, I think I am a good listener as well. I frequently pick up the bill after lunch or dinner. I never add or talk to boyfriends or husbands unless we all hang out together, and when we do I don’t flirt or try to be in the center of attention. I have a few hobbies that are quite different from one another, from nerd stuff to typical girly things. I enjoy a deep conversation as well as just laughing and being silly and not so serious.
The only thing I can think of is I’m not into clubs and concerts which is something a lot of the people I meet seem to like, I also prefer to work out at home so I don’t go to gyms, do my own nails and not so much of a spa person.
It seems as though whenever I hit it off with girls, they inevitably sooner or later lose interest in taking to me and cut me off.
One person has mentioned how she didn’t think there was enough variety in our hangouts. But can you really find a brand new thing to do every time? And if you enjoy someone’s company, shouldn’t dinner and couple drinks be enough to keep interest?
I’ve tried quite a lot to meet new people at social gatherings and though other connections. But it seems as though it is impossible to make lasting, genuine friends. I can’t for the life of me figure out what it is about me. Does anyone have a similar experience?
TL;DR: I don’t see anything seemingly wrong with me yet I can’t make female friends
Submitted May 04, 2019 at 04:01PM by nethernexus http://bit.ly/2Y9qNMC
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