Since day 1, my boyfriend has been on another timezone. He's usually late for everything. He lives 5 minutes away from me and he will text "on my way", and not show up for an hour+. He will be on time if its something HE is excited for, like a hockey game.
We make plans, with an understanding of what time/where, and sometimes he just completely bails. If we agree on 6pm, he will text around 6 and ask if we still had plans, then around 8 he will get moving. By that time i say forget it, because i'm tired of waiting or have just done my own thing. He's never not shown up, but he waits until last minute and plays like there's some kind of miscommunication about our plans.
I almost suspect he has ADHD. He doesn't focus on anything for longer than 20 mins, at work he can't seem to organize himself. His house is a mess. His time management is awful, clearly. Probably a bit of selfishness in here too since he's capable when its important to him. I can't function like this and have told him its a dealbreaker and we should think about breaking up as a compatibility issue. He thinks i'm over reacting and being dramatic when he's a 'few minutes late' or not being clear in the plans (?!?!)
Is this break up worthy, or something I can work with? Its been 2 years of this and everything else is good.
Tl;dr boyfriend always late or half bails on plans, saying he didn't understand the plans or lost track of time. I'm ready to break up over this ongoing issue. He thinks i'm over reacting.
Submitted May 04, 2019 at 12:10PM by garland456 http://bit.ly/2WnULfv
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