My [25M] girlfriend [22F] of 4 months got mad at me when I took off her fingerprint from my iPhone. Am I too paranoid?

We’ve been dating for 4 months now and back when we first started dating, I was driving somewhere and she wanted to change the song which was playing of my phone. She asked for my pin since I was driving and changed the song but also went into my settings and added her own finger print to my phone so she could unlock it anytime.

She never asked me and I didn’t know how to feel about it back then. I have absolutely nothing to hide but the fact that she has access to literally all my banks and work emails and communication made me paranoid. I felt uncomfortable but didn’t know how to bring up the subject without making it look like I was hiding something.

Although I have nothing to hide in terms of talking to other girls and stuff, i have embarrassing photos and group chats where we just joke around and share inside jokes and memes that I’m just not comfortable with her knowing about yet.

It got to the point where I have to bring my phone literally everywhere with me when we are together. Washroom/shower/kitchen just so I can keep an eye on and make sure she isn’t going through it.

So last week I decided that I’m not comfortable with that anymore and took her finger print off. I explained to her how I felt and that I have nothing to hide and she can go though my phone anytime she asks as long as I’m there with her. But she got mad and won’t talk to me. She left the house and basically gave me silent treatment.

I feel like I did something wrong and came off as too paranoid (which I am). Just the thought that she can basically get me fired and take all my money if she wants makes me paranoid. Like what if we have a big fight one day and decide to screw me over? Not that I don’t trust her, but it just too early to be sharing these things I feel. I also haven’t been in a real relationship for sometime now so maybe I’m not used to sharing that level of information and access to my life with anyone.

I like her a lot and want this relationship to go somewhere. But I just feel like she should understand and respect my privacy.

What do you think?

TL;DR - my girlfriend isn’t talking to me because I took off her fingerprint of my iPhone because I’m too paranoid that she has access to banks and work emails.

Submitted May 02, 2019 at 03:30PM by pmmeyourthrowawayacc http://bit.ly/2ZQTrDY