Basically, I’m a young athlete playing professionally in my chosen sport and after our seasons finished recreational leagues start and it’s a good time to enjoy the sport as it is with some friends and forget about the pressures.
However, this year i was planning on keeping a low profile in the off season and really focus on my body and improve my frame of mind for next season and I sorta just want to step away from others and fine tune some skills alone also. This is where the problems begin.
My friend wanted me to play in his team this year, I was hesitant, but he said he wanted me to help his coaching skills so I agreed. However, today I changed my mind and he started begging me to play, I didn’t budge. He then started saying I’m wreaking his project in coaching the team to win there league and began to guilt trip me. Eventually he cut contact with me. This sorta annoyed me because I’ve know him since primary school.
Should I just forget about him? I feel he’s acted really immaturely but I’m not too sure. Maybe I’m in the wrong. I would prefer the friendship didn’t end but I don’t know where to go from here.
TL;DR - Declined playing recreational with my friend who wants to use it as a platform for coaching. Claimed I was ‘wreaking’ his project to help the team succeed and cut contact with me. Where do I go from here in terms of the friendship.
Submitted May 05, 2019 at 04:05AM by JureHRVT http://bit.ly/2V3HCH4
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