She invites me over all the time. And while I'd love to come I don't feel like I can.
I'm around 400lbs and I'm afraid I'll break her furniture. Her and her husband try to live minimally and normally buy their furniture used or from Ikea type places. Having broken an Ikea chair of my own in the past I know they aren't strong enough for my body. And I know I can't afford to repair or replace anything that gets broken. So I make up excuses. Lots of them. And I'm running out and suspecting I need to just tell her. Its so embarrassing, though. I've been trying to lose weight for so long and it'll go great and then I'll screw it all up again. Admitting to people I've still not gotten a handle on it after so long makes it all harder to do.
What do I tell her?
tldr, Too heavy to sit on good friends furniture, don't know how to tell her why I'm always turning down her invitations to come over
Submitted May 05, 2019 at 07:28AM by hidingthefatchick http://bit.ly/2Wr1g10
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