My wife and I have been together for a total of 6.5 years. We married after about 1.5 years of dating. To be honest I feel like we got married too fast and don’t really have much in common anymore.
My attraction to her has all but diminished, we’ve not had sex for going on 6-7 months, and I find myself getting upset over seemingly everything. I’m not blaming her as I feel like this is mostly my fault but I just don’t know what to do.
It seems that she puts her family over mine and sees them as more important than mine and it hurts. She’ll move the world to spend time with her parents or sister but seemingly misses family gatherings when it’s my family.
She wants kids, I don’t. She wants to stay in our current state, I’d rather move. We have different outlooks on finances where I’d rather save, and she’d rather spend. I feel like I married a stranger and know it’s because we married too fast.
She makes off the cuff remarks like “I don’t even know why we’re married” to which we both kind of laugh off. But I almost feel like neither of us want to be the one to initiate the talk of divorce?
I just don’t know what to do here. I’m not putting all the blame on her as I’m sure I do thinks that she hates, I just don’t know what next steps are best. Can this be saved? Do I leave since my heart isn’t in it? How do I bring it up?
TLDR; I 32m am not happy with marriage to 29f wife. Thinking of leaving for own sanity, not sure if I’m overreacting or need to go.
Submitted April 25, 2019 at 08:58PM by LeeHarveyDidntDoIt http://bit.ly/2Vy6v24
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