I just finished my first year of college and I made friends with a grad student. He’s really sweet and we have a lot of things in common, but he’s also eight years older than I am. He had been pursuing me for about a month before I gave in and said yes, but it all seemed so weird given that he graduated college when I started high school, and all of my friends and I felt strange about it. He gave me the standard talk about how I come off as older than I really am and mature, and that he’s never met someone he’s had more in common with than me, but I didnt think that really helped. This changed when we were hanging out one night and he kept pulling me closer to him, until eventually he kissed me and we hooked up. We were just gonna call it a one night stand but we hang out a lot, so he suggested we date and end it in two months, which I agreed to. We’re not nearly at that point, but he wants to abolish our agreed end date given that we have a mutual friend in a relationship with a larger age gap. I’m hesitant to do anything given that he’s a really nice guy and I’m afraid he’s more into me than I am into him. I don’t want to lose his friendship given that we are pretty close and I find it very easy to talk to him, but I fear we may have gone too far. I also admit I am pretty immature compared to him and I enjoy partying and just plain out messing around, which I think he may have aged out of, and I don’t want my own flighty nature to disappoint him. I am legally an adult now so this isn’t illegal, but we both agreed it is kind of morally gray given the difference in life experience. I just could use some advice or opinions on the subject, like what would you do if you had a friend in either his or my situation? Or have you been in either his or my situation? Pls help.
Tl;dr: I’m a college freshman dating a grad student for the summer, is it weird?
Submitted July 13, 2019 at 04:08PM by Manic-pixie-memegirl https://ift.tt/2xOmNGh
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